Thursday, November 22, 2012

Thank You FOR. . .

This post is about giving thanks. . . and, believe it or not, it is completely un-triggered by Thanksgiving today.  Several weeks back, a dear woman read Ephesians 5:20.  "always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ."  She pointed out the little word "FOR."  Anytime I've heard, read, or thought about this verse, it was with the little word "IN," not "for."  This makes a big difference in the way I apply it to my life. . . I can easily say "Thank you Lord that you are with me IN this situation."  That's not what the verse says.  Yes, He is IN the situation, and for that I can and should thank Him.  What about the situation itself?  Can I be thankful FOR it? 
As I started to practice this new idea, it was hesitantly and out of sheer obedience.  "Thank you, Lord, that my husband is in the emergency room--because I can see you working in . . . etc, etc, etc."  I realized I was taking the long way around and not TRULY being thankful for the situation--I was still putting God in human terms and thanking him for the benefits or learning someone would receive.  I was still looking at myself, or at least still looking at the human aspect of the situation. 
I continued to practice thanking God FOR each situation that presented itself, and I admit it stuck in my craw for awhile. 
Thank you, Lord, that another puppy died.
Thank you, Lord, that my car is in the shop and will cost $800 to fix.
Thank you, Lord, that my dad still continues to suffer day after day.
WHAT?????  Are you kidding me???  No, I'm not kidding.  God has given me peace that passes understanding when I pray this way.  Why?  Because He has a plan.  Everything that happens is part of His plan and is for the ultimate good of all who love Him.
And don't be surprised if you ask me how I'm doing and I say "From my point of view, not so great.  But from God's perspective, I imagine everything is right on track." 

3 comments:

Jake Nelson said...

amen to that auntie!

Marie said...

I'm just getting around to reading this almost a month after you created this post. As usual, you are so insightful. This is something I need to work on. I could have used these words in the past few weeks, but will hang onto them now. Keep on writing!

Unknown said...

What is it that your dad has again? How long has he had it? I cannot remember a time when he didn't have it. He is a man to be admired, for his courage and strength. A man who has lived life to the fullest that he can. What a blessing to know that he has gotten to be part of his grandchildren's lives and know them all. It's sad that my dad never met 3 of mine. Your dad is a wonderful man!!!